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Spanking is an entertaining game, but you also need to be very cautious about a few things. You don't want your pleasure to be turned into another person's pain. Here are some tips you can follow during your spank play:
- Choose the submissive and dominant roles: Discuss which one of these roles you and your partner like the best! All you need to do next is let your imagination go at full speed with naughty thoughts and scenarios. The most common scenario is that she's been a bad girl, and you are "punishing" her for how bad she has been. The best solution will be to enjoy the best of worlds if you keep rotating the roles. This way, both partners can be dominant and submissive.
- Set a safe word: A crucial step of BDSM play is selecting g a safe word. Always remember they are your partner, which happens when you are into something; un-intently, you can cross your limits and avoid such conditions; the safe word is essential. A safe word can be any, but you must pay attention to it. Remember if they can act as a submissive who wants you to stop for as long as they want until they say a pre-agreed safe word.
- Warm them up: Don't be a maniac, and start hitting them. Instead of being too eager and starting spanking them hard right away, you want to take it slow at the beginning. Swat their butt lightly, so they feel only a soft stinging sensation! This will allow their cheeks to get used to the spank and act as a safeguard. After a few slaps, you can increase your strength gradually. Increasing the force behind each subsequent slap will allow them to tell you whether you are punishing her too hard or not.
- Play a little: Slapping their ass too fast can cause significant discomfort, turning them off in the end. Instead, you want to take a break between each swat.
- Let's look at an example:
- Give them 2 or 3 spanks in a row.
- Kiss their back, rub her erotic parts.
- Then slap their ass again.
Although it can be very erotic and fun, when you add kissing their back, rubbing parts, or talking dirty, it will bring this whole experience to a new level! This way, it is more fun.
- Try different sensations: Spanking is an art. The position of your hand and the way you hold it can make a big difference. You want to slap her good, but you also want to change your techniques to make it a little more fun.
Therefore, you should try these:
- Cupped palm with fingers together – This is an excellent way to increase the noise produced during a spank without actually increasing the pain level.
- Flat palm with relaxed fingers – A flat palm with flexible fingers makes more of a slapping noise and adds to a swat's pain level. This is where the natural stinging sensation will be felt!
Alternating between these techniques is fun. Starting with the first and moving into the second works excellent if you're trying to build up anticipation or warm up their butt gradually.
- Alternative options: Try to be experimental with some household pieces of equipment. If you're really into spanking and want to get serious, you can do so with style! You can use either professional toys or even just everyday household items. Which includes;
- Whips and floggers
- Long wooden spoons and spatulas
- Belts for more rough play
- Wet towels (this will hurt)
- Plastic rulers (be careful; these hurt a lot)
- Hairbrushes with long wooden ends.
Few ways to increase sensations:
- Swats or slaps – This is the standard spank we're used to. You can experience different techniques for extra fun.
- Caresses – Grab her ass and caress it. This is great for fun, and more brutal caresses can get her into a naughty mood.
- Rubbing – From behind, you'll be able to massage her butt and vagina. Please make this an excellent way to cool down or use it as a way to turn her on really hard!
Always alternate between various sensations to make your game more unpredictable and exciting. If you like dominatrix play, you can add a
leather cat dress,
gag balls, and handcuffs for more fun.
- Dirty time: Can you imagine the whole cosplay without dirty talk? No, right! Finally, the trick you can use to make spanking a much better experience for your partner is to add a bit of dirty talk into the mix. You must realize that you're "punishing" them for a reason – to be erotic and dominant!
We hope you follow these simple tips and enjoy the spanking!!!
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